Cooking With Dad
Every year, Father’s Day gives me pause to reflect on the things I loved most about my dad. His calm demeanor, his subdued but hysterical sense of humor, his generosity with his family and friends. He was a flawed soul (as we all are) with a kind heart and a love of life. He was the youngest of 13 kids who grew up during the depression, and sometimes there was a sadness in his soft, blue eyes…which typically turned to a twinkle with some joke or story he was telling.
My dad loved to cook. He was, in modern terminology, the very definition of a self-taught home cook. He was a “gourmand” who rarely finished cooking a dish in the same pan he started it in because, as he added ingredients, his meal outgrew the pan. My mom cooked not out of a love of cooking, but out of necessity to feed her family. But my dad always cooked with a passion for food.
I smile when I think about standing on a chair in the kitchen next to him, “helping” him make his thick hearty beef stew; or delicious cornbread dressing (which to this day I can’t quite replicate although I keep trying); or his tender, flavorful meatloaf. He didn’t even make me wash the dishes, which probably set me up for a difficult transition into adulthood now that I think about it! He had such a knack for seasoning, always understanding what flavors would enhance his dish, and what was missing when we taste-tested.
Pineapple Upside-Down Cake
Daddy was not a big sweet eater, but he loved Pineapple Upside Down Cake. Okay, his favorite dessert was actually Coconut Cream Pie, but he pretended his favorite was Pineapple Upside Down Cake so I could help him with it. He always made it in his cast iron skillet to get that golden crunch on the bottom/top. He would melt the butter directly in the pan, add the brown sugar, then let it cool so I could set the pineapple rings and cherries into the mixture by myself. Then we would gently dollop the thick cake batter over the pineapple-sugar layer together.
Dad would reserve one pineapple ring and a small bit of batter (sounds like a tongue twister) so we could make a small cake in one of my Easy Bake Oven pans (this is where my offspring would incredulously interject “They had Easy Bake Ovens when you were a kid?”). I remember the buttery smell of the cake as it baked, rising in the pan while I anxiously sat in front of the oven peering through the little window.
The Love of Cooking
After dad had his stroke and had to quit working, he filled his days with cooking. He would call my brothers and I and tell us to come over for some “care packages.” He would order to-go boxes from a restaurant supply company (no Amazon back then) so he could send food home with anyone and everyone who came to visit. His deep freezer was stacked with unlabeled freezer bags he would insist on giving us…we were never sure what it was going to be, but it was always delicious! And he was so excited to feed us…it gave him purpose in those later years…fed his soul you could say.
“To her, the name of father was another name for love.” —Fanny Fern
I always miss my dad most on Father’s Day, but I know I have much of him in me, including my love of cooking and sharing that passion with others. Remembering him keeps me grounded…reminds me of what’s important…family, passion, caring, sharing. So, this Father’s Day enjoy a Pineapple Upside Down Cake recipe from the little girl watching through the oven window.
And remember to always find a way to add a little Slice of Spice to your every day!
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Michele
Dads Pineapple Upside Down Cake
Sweet pineapple; ooey, gooey, caramel sauce; fluffy butter cake...whats not to love?
Ingredients
- 4 tbsp butter
- 1/2 cup brown sugar
- 20 oz can sliced pineapple reserve juice
- 10-12 maraschino cherries
- 1 1/2 cups all purpose flour
- 1 teaspoon baking powder
- 1 cup granulated sugar
- 8 tbsp butter - melted
- 2 large eggs
Instructions
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Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
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Place cast iron skillet with 4 tbsp butter in oven as it preheats.
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When butter is melted remove skillet from oven. Sprinkle brown sugar evenly over melted butter and put back into oven until bubbly. Remove from oven and allow to cool slightly.
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Remove pineapple rings from can. Place one ring in center of skillet. Arrange remaining rings around center ring to the edge of skillet.
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Place maraschino cherry in the center of each pineapple ring, then set pan to the side.
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Sift together flour, baking powder, and salt in medium bowl. Set aside.
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In a large mixing bowl, cream together sugar and 8 tbsp melted butter until light and creamy. Add the eggs and beat until smooth.
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On low speed, incorporate a third of the flour mixture into the butter mixture. Add 1/2 cup of reserved pineapple juice, mix until smooth. Add 1/2 of the remaining flour, then 1/2 cup of pineapple juice. Mix until smooth. Add remaining flour mixture and mix until smooth.
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Gently dollop cake batter over the pineapple rings in the skillet, being careful not to displace the fruit/sugar. Smooth the batter with a spatula and gently tap on the counter to remove any air and settle the batter.
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Bake for approximately 40 minutes, until it is a deep golden brown and springs back to the touch.
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Cool cake for 10-15 minutes. Invert cake plate over skillet; flip plate and skillet over so plate is now on the bottom. Gently remove skillet from plate.
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Serve warm or cool.
What a beautiful story. The background story of it being a ‘Upside Dad Cake’ is so sweet. I love that your dad saved you some of the batter and a pineapple ring just for you and your easy bake oven! Thank you so much for sharing. I’m pinning to make one myself because this is one dessert I’ve never tried.
I hope you enjoy it Jessica! Come back and let me know!
I love this recipe. It reminds me of my mother…it was her favorite. The pictures are great…nice touch. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you Ceci!
My family love pineapple. This will be a win in my house for sure!
I hope you enjoy!
Your story about your dad is so beautiful and heartfelt. There is nothing so sweet as a recipe that brings back good memories. This post went straight to my heart, and now it’s melting like butter in a skillet! These memories of cooking with your Dad are inspiring… I would love to do the same with my son.
I hope you do…he will always remember those times!
Thank you for sharing your cherished memories of time spent in the kitchen with “gourmand”, love it! The recipe looks like a keeper as well 🙂
Thank you Suzan!
What a very charming post! This cake also looks delicious! I have been hungry for one of these for a while now, and now, I have no excuse but to make one! Yum!!! Thanks for sharing!
Thanks Kelly!
Such a sweet post. Dads are special indeed! And great recipe. thanks for sharing. Found you through June10k challenge and I am so happy I did.
Thank you for your lovely comments! I’ve been reading your posts as well!
Pineapple upside down cake sounds awesome! And I love how organized your blog is 😊
Thank you very much! Come back and visit!
This is so sweet to read. My grandmother died when I was only 10. We still make her favorite recipes and remember the good times we had even though they were short. Its the tastes and smells that really bring you back!
Thanks Jessica!
I love upside down anything! Pineapple is in season, so this would be a good bake for the summer. Lovely post about your dad! I could relate as I credit most of my knowledge in culinary world to him.
Daughters and their dads! Thanks Maureen.
Great post!